You will not get the truth from people if you overreact every time they try to be honest with you. Your temper and sensitivity are keeping some people from giving you information that could possibly make life easier for you. Stop taking things so personal and use the honest feedback to make positive changes. If not, you are going to make up in your mind that you need to do things by yourself. Eventually you are going to burn out and end up losing what you have. God bless!